Words of AffirmationLove Language – Words of Affirmation

The Power of the Tongue

Mark Twain once said, “I can live for two months on a good compliment.” Good for Mark Twain, but I don’t know many husbands and wives who can survive on six compliments a year.  Solomon, author of the ancient Hebrew wisdom literature, wrote, “The tongue has the power of life and death.”  Many couples have never learned the tremendous power of verbally affirming each other.  Verbal compliments are powerful communicators of love.

Encouraging Words of Affirmation

One way to verbally affirm your spouse is to give encouraging words of affirmation.  Allison always wanted to be a writer, but after receiving her first rejection slip from the publisher, she gave up.  One evening her husband Keith came into the den and said, “I hate to interrupt your reading, but I have to tell you this.  I just finished reading your article.  Allison, you are an excellent writer.  This stuff ought to be published!  Your words paint pictures that I can visualize.  You have got to submit this stuff to some magazines.”  “Do you really think so?” Allison asked.  “I know so,” Keith said. “I’m telling you, this is good.”

Ten years later, Allison has had several articles published and has her first book contract.  She credits her success to Keith’s encouraging words of affirmation.  Perhaps your spouse has untapped potential in one or more areas of life.  That potential may be awaiting your encouraging words.

Originally published on 5lovelanguages.com.

©2009 Gary D. Chapman. Used with permission. All rights reserved.


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